Frequently Asked Questions


What is Mediation?

Mediation is a collaborative process where a neutral third party, the mediator, assists individuals in resolving disputes and reaching mutually acceptable agreements. Unlike litigation, which often results in a win-lose outcome, mediation focuses on open communication and cooperation, allowing all parties to express their concerns and find common ground. The mediator facilitates discussions, helping to clarify issues and explore potential solutions. This process is confidential, voluntary, and designed to empower individuals to make decisions that best suit their unique circumstances. Mediation is particularly effective in family conflicts, such as divorce, child custody, and eldercare, as it promotes understanding and preserves relationships.

Is Mediation legally binding?

The agreements reached during mediation can be made legally binding if they are put into writing and signed by all parties involved. Once the mediated agreement is signed, it can be submitted to a court for approval, which can then issue a court order based on the terms of the agreement. This court order is legally binding and enforceable. The process ensures that the solutions found through mediation have the same legal weight as those decided in court, providing both flexibility and finality to the parties involved.

Do I need to have an attorney present for Mediation?

No, you do not need to have an attorney present for mediation. Mediation is designed to be a less formal, more flexible process where parties can discuss and resolve their disputes with the help of a neutral mediator. However, having an attorney can be beneficial for understanding your legal rights and obligations, and to review any agreements reached before signing. Whether or not to have an attorney present is a personal choice and depends on the complexity of the issues and your comfort level.

How long does a typical mediation session last?

Parties can choose between a partial or full-day mediation. Partial mediations typically last 4 hours or less, full-day mediations last 8 hours or less and include a 45-minute lunch break.


What are the costs associated with mediation?

The costs can vary based on the mediator's fees and the length of the sessions. At Blissful Mediation, partial mediation (4 hours or less) starts at $300 per party, and full-day mediation (8 hours or less) starts at $900 per party. There is also a nonrefundable fee of $50 per party for pre-mediation activities, and a $75 non-cancellation fee per party for missed sessions without 24-hour notice.

What happens if we can't reach an agreement during mediation?

If an agreement cannot be reached, the parties can choose to pursue other dispute resolution methods, such as arbitration or litigation. Mediation can still be beneficial as it often clarifies the issues and opens lines of communication.

Is mediation confidential?

Yes, mediation is a confidential process, unlike litigation. The discussions and any materials produced during mediation cannot be used in court if the mediation does not result in an agreement. This encourages open and honest communication.

How do I prepare for a mediation session?

To prepare for mediation, gather all relevant documents and information, identify your main concerns and goals, and think about possible solutions. It’s also helpful to approach the process with an open mind and a willingness to negotiate.

How do I know if mediation is right for my situation?

Mediation is a good option if you are looking for a collaborative and non-adversarial way to resolve your dispute. It is particularly beneficial when preserving relationships is important, and when both parties are willing to negotiate in good faith. If you are unsure, contact us for a free consultation to discuss your situation.

What are the benefits of choosing mediation over litigation?

Mediation is typically faster, less expensive, and less adversarial than litigation. It promotes cooperation and communication, preserves relationships, and allows the parties to control the outcome. It also provides more flexible and creative solutions.

Can mediation be done remotely?

Yes, mediation is conducted remotely using video conferencing tools like Zoom. This allows for greater flexibility and convenience, especially for parties who are geographically separated or have scheduling constraints.

What qualifications do your mediators have?

At Blissful Mediation, our mediators are qualified professionals dedicated to helping you resolve conflicts effectively and amicably. Our team includes mediators with a law degree, a bachelor's degree in social work, and specialized training in mediation. This diverse background equips us with a deep understanding of legal principles, social dynamics, and conflict resolution techniques, ensuring we provide the best possible support for your unique situation.

What if the other party refuses to participate in mediation?

Mediation is a voluntary process, so both parties need to agree to participate. If the other party refuses, you may need to consider other dispute resolution methods, such as arbitration or litigation.